First of all, I am a nerd…

Let me start off by telling you a little about myself.  I work as a Software Engineer, I’m in my twenties and I was able to go from almost no dates in a year to averaging about 3 per week.

Looking back at my journey, it took a lot of self-discovery to get to where I am today.  I’ve made every mistake in the book, looked everywhere for advice, went from being over-confident to insecure and back again.  I envied those who had it so easy and wondered if it was due to my looks, height, confidence but in the end, it was none of those things.

Have a positive mindset and avoid the wrong advice…

If I were to travel back in time and tell my younger-self, what was the key to it all, I would tell myself it was all about the mindset.  Hell, I would also tell my younger-self that for every good bit of dating advice online, there were about 100 articles all giving the wrong advice.  In short, don’t get your dating advice online.  (And yes, I see the irony about making a blog devoted to just that).

In the coming weeks, I will be adding more posts about the do’s and don’ts of dating.  As a nerd growing up, I never really had any dating common sense until I was much older.  I hope these articles will help out those who are looking for the right advice.

What this blog is:

  • Getting into the right mindset
  • Building Dating Common Sense

What this blog is not:

  • Pickup Artistry
  • Psychological Manipulation

How do I go from zero dates to 3 a week?

This takes time, there is not silver bullet that will make you a stud overnight.  You really must focus on not just being yourself but your best self.  Being successful in dating is all about

  • How positive you are
  • How you dress
  • How you socialize with others
  • What you have to offer a woman

It is not about learning pickup lines or how to trick women into sleeping with you.  I want to emphasize that the goal is find someone you can have a long term relationship with, that should be your motivation.  In fact, going from zero to 3 dates a week is merely a stepping stone to achieving this.

I recommend that you read the articles on this site and stay tuned for updates by subscribing to our newsletter. (Don’t forget to check your spam).  In the coming weeks I will be posting more helpful advice about how to be successful in dating.  You can even respond to the newsletter email if you want more personalized advice and I will do my best to get back to you.