It’s the get “rich-quick” scheme in the dating world

When you’re single, you usually think that everyone else is getting laid except you.  You think that some guys have got it figured out and are able to sleep with dozens of women at the drop of a hat.  You hear stories about their exploits and think to yourself, what is the secret?  How can I be like them?

Well guess what, there is a website and a workshop out there explaining the “secrets” to dating.  You can go from zero to hero if you just learn the “approach”.

Now if you watched this video, I hope you didn’t take this seriously because anyone who as met a woman in real life knows that this is complete B.S.  And just to drive my point home, here is another video by a renowned pickup artist…

Hilarious isn’t it?  Which brings me to my next point…

90% of Dating Success isn’t in the approach…

Let me qualify this statement by saying that “success” in dating means finding a long term partner.  You will notice on this site, I do not preach techniques that will “get you laid tonight”.  Rather I want to focus on things that will improve you as a person.  If you focus more on yourself and more on finding a long term relationship you will be way more happier than someone trying to “game the system” in order to get laid.

 

Who you are is what matters most.

After watching those videos above, just think, how would someone like Kit Harrington or Brad Pitt approach a woman?  All they really need to do is walk up to someone and say their name, or in their case, people know who they are.

My point is, if you are a decent guy who works out regularly and earns a respectable income, you have a better chance with women than some basement dweller who attended all of the “Pickup Artist” workshops.

Don’t fall for the pickup artist scam…