First of all, I am a nerd…
Let me start off by telling you a little about myself. I work as a Software Engineer, I’m in my twenties and I was able to go from almost no dates in a year to averaging about 3 per week.
Looking back at my journey, it took a lot of self-discovery to get to where I am today. I’ve made every mistake in the book, looked everywhere for advice, went from being over-confident to insecure and back again. I envied those who had it so easy and wondered if it was due to my looks, height, confidence but in the end, it was none of those things.
Have a positive mindset and avoid the wrong advice…
If I were to travel back in time and tell my younger-self, what was the key to it all, I would tell myself it was all about the mindset. Hell, I would also tell my younger-self that for every good bit of dating advice online, there were about 100 articles all giving the wrong advice. In short, don’t get your dating advice online. (And yes, I see the irony about making a blog devoted to just that).
In the coming weeks, I will be adding more posts about the do’s and don’ts of dating. As a nerd growing up, I never really had any dating common sense until I was much older. I hope these articles will help out those who are looking for the right advice.
What this blog is:
- Getting into the right mindset
- Building Dating Common Sense
What this blog is not:
- Pickup Artistry
- Psychological Manipulation
How do I go from zero dates to 3 a week?
This takes time, there is not silver bullet that will make you a stud overnight. You really must focus on not just being yourself but your best self. Being successful in dating is all about
- How positive you are
- How you dress
- How you socialize with others
- What you have to offer a woman
It is not about learning pickup lines or how to trick women into sleeping with you. I want to emphasize that the goal is find someone you can have a long term relationship with, that should be your motivation. In fact, going from zero to 3 dates a week is merely a stepping stone to achieving this.
I recommend that you read the articles on this site and stay tuned for updates by subscribing to our newsletter. (Don’t forget to check your spam). In the coming weeks I will be posting more helpful advice about how to be successful in dating. You can even respond to the newsletter email if you want more personalized advice and I will do my best to get back to you.